Nine Flowers Touch Meditation for Lovers

SACRED SPACE: Create a time and space free from distraction. Light a candle or burn incense to create a sacred space for this process.

EYE GAZING: Sit comfortably facing each other and looking into each other’s eyes.

FEATHER STROKING: Decide who will give first and who will receive. For the one receiving, close your eyes while your partner strokes your entire body with a feather. Allow your self to open and receive this light and erotic touch. Take your time and move slowly. Then switch.

SMILE AND SEND LOVE: When you are finished, smile to each other and send love to your partner through your eyes. If you wish you can add a verbal statement of your love.

EXPLORE YOURSELF: Now together lightly touch your own nipple very gently, using a featherlight touch. Barely touch it. Now spiral from the nipple out around the nipple and circling about a half inch away from the nipple (at the edge of the dark skin or aereola). Circle around the nipple eighteen, thirty-six or more times. You will feel an itchy, aroused feeling as your sexual energy expands.

MAKE NINE CIRCLES: Now move down about one-half to one inch and make another circle, as if you are drawing a flower. Continue moving down the body from the nipple to the genitals, making circles about one half to one inch apart. You are exploring your body and connecting the breast or heart to the genitals. The ninth circle should be at your pubis right above your sexual organs.

EXPLORE EACH OTHER: Then the man should then make nine circles on the woman and then the woman should do it back to the man.

MAKE HEALING LOVE: Now make love however you and your partner wish with your whole bodies and your whole hearts.

Adapted from The Multi-Orgasmic Couple by Mantak Chia and Maneewan Chia.

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